Daily positive affirmations. I find creative solutions to my problems.
Everyone has problems sometimes, it is how you act in a difficult situation that counts. Do you start to blame, or do you start to problem solve? Most people look around for someone or something else to blame when there is a problem. Or they think to themselves, "good things never happen to me."
Problem solvers get up and get going. They look for solutions. Usually, there is a solution to every problem, it may just take some creative thinking to get there. Other times, we may need to enlist some help. It may be a friend or loved one, or a specialized professional. Most of the time though, problems can be solved.
The only sure way not to solve your problems is to give up. As long as you keep trying, a solution is likely to come. It may not be easy to find, but it is usually there all the same. That is why creative problem solving is important.
I hope that you conquer whatever problems are in your way my lovelies, and come out shining!
Have a blessed day!
Daily Positive Affirmations. I am safe and secure.
Safety is one of our most basic needs as human beings. Finding a place of safety is one of the first things that we need to do in order to live a good life. If we are unsafe for whatever reason, we are always going to struggle.
If you are living somewhere unsafe, it is important to try to find a new situation for yourself. This can be a struggle at times. Making a safety plan of how to leave a difficult situation is a good first step. You will want to make sure that you have a bag packed somewhere, with all of your important documents, so that you can leave on a moment's notice if needed.
To find out more about making a safety plan, specifically for domestic violence, you can read more here.
If you are unsafe for another reason, such as living in a shelter, being homeless, coping with bullying, or living with narcissistic parents, the safety planning information will still prove to be helpful. There are also many community resources available for this type of situation. You can reach out to the local county office to find out what type of services are available for you. This would most likely be the Health Department if you are in the US, the same place you would apply for food stamps.
Be careful out there my lovelies, I wish you only the best always. I hope that you are all safe out there today.
Much love always. <3